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“Everyone who will can hear the Voice. It is within everyone, but like everything else, it requires previous and definite preparation.”
–Mahatma Gandhi

Want to Take a Free Class?

It’s actually pretty easy. And you get 40 percent of its revenues, as well. All you have to do is sponsor one for the people in your life. And with email, that’s also easy.

All you have to do is pick a class of mine that you’d like to produce (either a class that I can give in person if we’re geographically close or one that I give on the phone if we’re not). You can find these classes described in detail on my website at http://www.carybayer.com/workshops.html. Then, let me know which one it is, and give me a call. That’s when we’d discuss the details of where/when/how much it’ll cost, etc. And I’d get back to you with a beautifully-designed flyer, which you then send out to your friends, family, co-workers, neighbors, etc.

Here’s what some other producers have said about the experience of producing a class:

“When Cary Bayer has come to Stafford VA, he’s brought wisdom, laughter, and a peaceful balance. He reminds us, in all of his workshops, that we truly do have the power to live to our fullest potential with grace. Each workshop he has given here has always ended with our audience leaving lighter and enthusiastic to live their dreams! I encourage you to invite Cary to your community so he may show you how effortless it really is to live your dream.” –Linda Osorio, Partner, Stafford House of Yoga, Stafford, VA

“Cary Bayer, to put it simply, is about love. He brings it to his friendships, his work relationships, and his classes. Coupled with his awareness of human behavior, one cannot help feeling safe, protected, and in good hands when engaged in one of his workshops. This was felt not only by myself, but by every single friend who attended his workshop. I feel blessed to have him as a teacher.”

–Lisa Offman, Tennis Coach, Ossining, NY

You can discuss the ins and outs of producing a class with me at (845) 664-1883.

June Webinar on Building a $100,000 Healing Arts Business

How would you like to have a $100,000 healing arts business? My “Build a $100,000 a Year Healing Arts Business” is a webinar offering 6 CEs (for massage therapists) that will take place on four consecutive Wednesday nights–June 4, 11, 18, & 25–from 8:30-10 PM eastern time. All sessions will be recorded and can be played back later.

You’ll learn, in the webinar, a daily 15-minute “inner workout” that can transform you into a perpetual money magnet, and make success as natural as stronger abs and muscle tone is for those who do physical aerobics.

You’ll also learn “Going to the Market,” a 45-minute program, in which I share critical marketing secrets, such as:

one that can turn almost anyone you meet into a client
two essential questions to ask clients that can triple your income strategies to create tens of thousands of dollars in passive income without lifting a finger.
a powerful plan that can regularly drive a line of referrals to your door

This class has often cost $175 in the past, but is being priced now for just

$99.99, a saving to you of more than $75.
Or only $84.99 if payment is received by May 17

You can register for the course by emailing successaerobics@aol.com, or by calling (845) 664-1883.

Product Profile

This issue’s product is “How to Overcome Procrastination NOW,” (see cover below), a 2-hour-plus DVD of a live workshop that teaches win/win fun techniques to stop procrastinating something in your life; offers bite-sized approaches to tackling large chores; and presents the Procrastination Aerobics–a 14-minute daily program to raise self-esteem, thus preventing future procrastination.

The cost is slight-just $30, plus $3 for shipping and handling. You can find it at http://carybayer.com/coaching-products.html or order it by emailing successaerobics@aol.com, or calling (845) 664-1883.

Free Coaching

To celebrate June, the month when Summer arrives, I’m offering complimentary half-hour coaching sessions for the first two people who contact me by phone (845-664-1883), or by email at successaerobics@aol.com. It’s my way of giving thanks for the great life that I’m blessed to live. There are only four restrictions, but please read them carefully:

You haven’t already received a free coaching session from me.
You’re not currently involved in a series of coaching sessions with me.
You book the session within three days of winning, so if you call or email, check my response and respond in time. If you forget to do this, someone on the waiting list will take your spot which happens from time to time.
You take the session before June 15th.

Affirmations

Here are several affirmations from my series on procrastination, success, relationships, communication, and the inner journey, that are available in five mini-books and three CDs.

“My clarity of mind helps me to prioritize the things that I have to do every day”—Affirmations to End Procrastination

“I return from Over the Rainbow refreshed and able to appreciate everyone and everything more deeply.”— Follow Your Yellow Brick Road: Provisions for your Inner Journey

“Since I am safe in the presence of others, I am free to express myself fully.”— Affirmations make the Heart Grow Fonder

Art Director

I’m in the process of finding an art director to design the layout for my forthcoming CD, “Follow Your Yellow Brick Road.” If you’re interested, you can reach me at successaerobics@aol.com or by phone at (845) 664-1883.

Cartoonist

A former humor writer for such publications as the National Lampoon, Playboy, and New York’s Daily News, among others, I’m now in the process of finding an artist to illustrate my cartoon gag ideas. I’ve collaborated with artists on cartoons for publication years ago, but haven’t in quite some time, and am now eager to work with someone whose drawing style matches my comic mind. If you or someone you know might be that right person, you can reach me at (845) 664-1883, or by email at successaerobics@aol.com.

Quote from the “Expert”

Rock ‘n Roll

“It will be gone by June.”–Variety, 1955

Quotes of the Month
Gratitude

“Nothing new can come into your life without the feeling of gratitude.”–Rev. Michael Beckwith

“He who is not contented with what he has would not be contented with what he would like to have.”–Socrates

Breakthroughs

Ralph Nader, the political and social activist who so many people like to dislike, says that an increasing number of both Republicans and Democrats agree with many of his views. He writes about this in his new book, Unstoppable: The Emerging Left-Right Alliance To Dismantle The Corporate State.

Sign of an Age of Enlightenment?

The Sun Sentinel, in south Florida, and a part of the Tribune Newspapers chain, did an article about the mystical singing bowls of Tibet in its Sunday travel section.

The Cosmic and the Comic

“A cheerful look brings joy to the heart and good news gives health to the bones.”–Proverbs 15:3

Factoid

The 85 richest people in the world have the same net worth as half the world’s population–3.5 billion people. I tip my hat to the enormous success of these 85, and I invite the 85, as well as governments around the world, to inspire the 3.5 billion to enjoy breakthroughs in their abundance, too.

Testimonial on Coaching

“Cary Bayer helped me cut to the core of a problem I was having as a beginner in my new career endeavor. His ideas worked quickly and painlessly! He also encouraged me out of my comfort zone just enough that I had needed but perhaps would have taken much longer to do on my own–saving me a lot of wasted time and energy! Thanks Cary.”–Lisa Malwitz, Massage Therapist, Tallhasssee, FL

Syndicated “Life 101” Column

The column below ran in syndication in a variety of wellness publications, including Arizona Together in the past.

The Twilight Zone & the New Age

“You’re traveling through another dimension–a dimension not only of sight and sound but of mind. A journey into a wondrous land, whose boundaries are that of imagination. That’s a signpost up ahead: your next stop: the Twilight Zone!“–Rod Serling

Through Memorable Entertainment Television I watch The Twilight Zone weeknights. Serling’s vivid imagination expanded our reality, when lightweight fare like Father Knows Best shaped American consciousness–and it’s still stretching us half a century later. In 2013, TV Guide ranked The Twilight Zone number four in its list of The 60 Greatest Dramas of All Time.

The term “new age” didn’t exist when The Twilight Zone was born, but many of its principles were also popular in The Twilight Zone. In “A World of His Own,” Keenan Wynn portrayed a famous playwright, who created characters by dictating their profiles into a tape recorder; they were so lifelike they were…well, lifelike–they jumped off the page into his room.

The show opened on the playwright and his mistress, who he then made disappear when his jealous wife arrived early. He tried to prove to his Mrs. that he had a magical skill for manifesting life from his own mind. She didn’t believe him until he made her disappear, too: his wife herself was a creation of his imagination.

The episode also demonstrated an esoteric Vedic principle of Ritam Bhara Pragya, an expanded consciousness in which one’s intentions immediately manifest. Spiritual history records the miracles of Christ and the manifestations of yogi Sathya Sai Baba two millennia later.

In another episode, a washed up boxer, gets a lesson from a young boy who teaches him the Law of Attraction. The boy changes reality–turning his hero’s defeat in the ring into a knockout victory. But when the pugilist learns that night that it was the child’s belief that changed reality, the jaded adult tells the innocent child how Reality works. With that, the fight’s outcome changes again; the washed-up fighter loses, after all.

New agers talk about support from their guides. In “A Passage for Trumpet,” a young Jack Klugman portrays a down-and-out trumpet player who deliberately walks off a curb to get run over. He’s given a second chance at life by his guardian angel–the horn-blowing archangel Gabriel.

The Twilight Zone also superbly demonstrated shifting contexts, a skill I coach clients on regularly. In one episode, a couple, hung over from a night of drinking and partying, can’t understand why nobody is on the streets, and why buildings and phone booths are facades. We, as viewers, eventually discover that they’re figures in a young girl’s dollhouse.

As a life coach, I encourage clients to see their lives, relationships, and businesses in a more expanded and empowered context than the smaller ones from which they often view their situation. Such new ways of seeing enable a person to move out of being stuck into that wonderful place we call the Zone–a higher state of consciousness in…well, the Twilight Zone.

Meditation Training Now Available by Skype & Webcam

When I taught Transcendental Meditation for several decades, I could only teach it in person. But since founding Higher Self Healing Meditation in 2010, I am happy to say that the training is now available from a distance if you have a webcam on your computer. Let me know if you’d like to take advantage of this valuable stress-reducing method, even if you live far from my homes in upstate New York or south Florida.

Want to Write a Book? New Publishing Venture

Set Up for You to Fulfill that Dream

How would you like to have your own book published and available on Amazon? That dream can now become a reality, with the help of on-demand publishing technology, and the writing, editing, graphic design, and marketing and public relations team that I’ve put in place for that very purpose.

Here’s the team that’s set up for you:

A graphic designer who has worked for Disney World, Harley Davidson, and Touchstone Pictures, among other credits. She’s also a complete joy to work with, as I can attest–she was the designer on my most recent book, 40 Days to a Happy Life.

A writer/editor who’s been a columnist for The Motley Fool, the editor-in-chief for Mortgageloan.com, Completegrowth.com, and Creditland.com, who has edited five books and was the ghost writer or contributor on three. She also wrote for such Fortune 500 companies as Merrill Lynch, Morgan Stanley, Charles Schwab, Prudential, and the Hartford, among others.

Also on the team as a writer is yours truly. I’ve written five full-length books and more than three dozen mini-books.

The venture’s book publicist has helped authors make the best-seller lists of the New York Times and the Wall Street Journal, and has had her clients featured on Oprah, The Today Show, Good Morning, America, Time, Newsweek, Business Week, Forbes, NPR, Redbook, and Ladies’ Home Journal, among others. She’s worked for such authors as Jack Canfield and Jacqueline Miller, Heart at Work (McGraw-Hill); Terri Orbuch, 5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great (Random House); Sophy Burnham, The Path of Prayer: Reflections on Prayer and True Stories of How It Affects Our Lives (Viking Penguin); and Charles Garfield, Susun Weed, Gerald Celente, and Drs. Susan Lark, Ro Brock, and Stephen Sinatra, among others, and for authors who’ve been published by virtually every major publishing house in America.

If you’d like to talk about how you can have a dream come true and have your own book or mini-book in print, and would either like to write it or have someone ghost write it for you, don’t hesitate to call at (954) 788-3380, or email me. We’re here to make that dream of yours come true.

Higher Self Healing Meditation

I’m proud to announce the development of a new meditation training that’s been marinating in the quietest levels of consciousness deep within my soul for a number of years.

Its name is Higher Self Healing Meditation, and it’s as effortless as Transcendental Meditation (TM) that Maharishi Mahesh Yogi trained me to teach when I was 20 years old.

Some years back, the movement that teaches the late Maharishi’s system of TM significantly changed the requirements for those who had been teaching to continue to do so. As a result, thousands of teachers, including myself, no longer instruct that method. But understanding the mechanics of how the mind transcends in meditation after teaching meditation to so many hundreds of people from southern California and Western Europe to the Caribbean and many points in between–as well as training dozens of teachers of Transcendental Meditation–I’ve developed a system of meditation that’s as effective as TM, as easy as TM, and available at one third the price that it costs to learn TM.

Have you thought about incorporating a daily stress-management system to:

release deep-rooted tension,
increase energy,
stimulate creativity,
enliven happiness, and
enable you to contact the inexhaustible reservoir of creativity and intelligence deep within you at the transcendental level of Being?

If so, let me know, and I can explain how easy it is to learn over the course of five hours in three consecutive days. You can reach me by email or by phone at (845) 679-5526.

Blog Cabin

I have my site set up properly, and I’ve begun to write regularly. If you would like to have my blog entries emailed to you, you can enter your email address here.

Face to Face to Facebook

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faster means of transport than the Interstate highways I find myself on each month, the World Wide Web is, like rock ‘n’ roll, here to stay, and presumably, also will never die. That being the case, I’ve recently created two pages on Facebook that can help you create breakthroughs in a variety of ways. The pages are called:

Cary Bayer Breakthrough Coaching
You can easily subscribe to the service by clicking the “Like” button on top of this page.
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Santa Claus: Archetype of Prosperity

Prosperity Blog from Cary Bayer, Life Coach Florida

Santa, Archetype of Prosperity

December 25th is the day hundreds of millions of Christians celebrate the birth of their Redeemer. It’s also the day hundreds of millions celebrate the generosity of their Rewarder. He’s the bearded jolly chap known as St. Nicholas or Santa Claus (Sint Klaas as the Dutch settlers called him in Holland). I like to think of him as the quintessential archetype for prosperity. In a tough economy where you may be losing sleep over losing your job, an abundant elf like Santa is vital to our national health and imagination.

Known as the patron saint of giving, Santa might more aptly be known as the patron saint of rapid transit. He’s a veritable master of bilocation. In December, you’ll spot him at the Town Center in Boca Raton, Florida, at the same moment your friends spot him on Broadway in New York City, while others insist he’s also on Rodeo Drive in Beverly Hills. Bilocation, shmilocation… Superman may be fast, but Santa is downright omnipresent. He’s more than just a symbol of prosperity, he’s a veritable embodiment of all possibilities.

When I was a small boy, my Uncle Dave was vital to my sense of possibilities. A personification of prosperity, he’d give me the silver dollars he pulled out of my ears with his magic. Dave was a mortal man, so he had his limits, Santa is a myth so he has none. His huge sack full of wrapped goodies is a veritable storehouse of infinite generosity.

This red-suited jolly old guy gives unending presents from just one sack, sleds his way over the rooftops of the world, and shares his bounty with children, the most innocent beings on our planet.

Perhaps St. Nick’s miraculous feats of “sharing-do” are powered by the ever-present mantra he chants– “Ho-ho-ho.” Is this an ancient mantra from China or an esoteric meditation from the North Pole? That ringing bell of his sounds more at home in Tibet than at his snowy digs.

While the holiday season is about love and hope, the girth of St. Nicholas inspires abundance. In December’s endless flashing neon, long checkout lines, and out-of-control credit cards, this archetype of prosperity brings a much-needed smile to the harried shopping class. We shouldn’t even think of foregoing the wrappings and trappings of a saint like Nick, he’s our national symbol of prosperity. Our political leaders forever spout peace and prosperity; these are qualities embodied by Santa Claus.

As I once told students in a prosperity class I gave near the nation’s capital in Alexandria, “Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus.”

How Your Dog can Help Awaken You

Man’s best teacher

A dog is not only a man’s best friend, he may also be his best teacher. A dog embodies so many qualities of the Enlightenment described by the world’s great teachers–from Jesus, Buddha, Krishna, Mohammed and Lao Tzu—that it’s hardly a coincidence that dog is god spelled backwards.

All spiritual teachers put love as critical for cultivating the highest state of consciousness we call Enlightenment. The family dog demonstrates a form of unconditional love that’s hard to find in our world. Many a husband who’s turned his head a little too long to gaze at the “hottie” in a mini-skirt, has discovered how quickly his spouse’s love is less than unconditional. What if a woman gains 75 pounds? Unfortunately, that has moved far too many men in our disposable culture to be on the lookout for a slimmer (and, while they’re at it, newer) model. What adult doesn’t like to think his parents love him unconditionally? Yet, break a few laws, and even the kindest of parents have been known to disown such a child, or even turn him in to the authorities.

But it doesn’t matter how much you weigh, how many hotties and hunks yo ogle, it doesn’t even matter how many other dogs you pet, your dog is your pal forever, loving you unconditionally to his dying breath. A dog will greet you with a wagging tail and endless licks and kisses. (Does your wife or husband do that? I didn’t think so.) You can yell at a dog in anger, and h may cower away in fear, but an hour later, he’s forgiven you of your cruelty. Most spouses are less forgiving.

Consciousness firmly awakened in the present is necessary for achieving the highest states of human development. In Eckhart Tolle’s best-selling The Power of Now, he elucidated the necessity for, and advantages of, keeping yourself in the present moment, as compared to looking over your shoulder at the past, or into the future that’s not yet come.

A dog never dwells in what once was, nor is he obsessed with what may be on its way. He’s focused on the present. Even when lying down to catch some shut-eye, he often keeps one eye open to the goings on around him.

Enthusiasm, from the Greek entheos or “in god,” is another attribute of higher consciousness. If a wagging tail doesn’t remind you to stay enthusiastic, nothing will. Retrievers of the Golden and Labrador type are perfect embodiments of an enthusiasm that’s hard to top in this world. A person can throw the same ball to the same Retriever over and over again but, while the person soon gets bored, the dog never does. Each new toss is a brand new ball to fetch. His presence in the moment and enthusiasm for chasing the same thing time and again display the freshness of an awakened state of being that our great teachers have both explained and embodied.

With all these things that dogs teach us, who really are the masters? Perhaps they love to awaken us so much that we’re like our teachers’ pets.

Changes in Gratitude, Changes in Attitude

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]Recently, Thanksgiving has become a gluttonous day of turkey, parades and football, a long fall from its origin when grateful Pilgrims thanked God for the bounteous harvest that their helpful native American neighbors shared with them. Our Higher Power is also generous with His/Her bounty; blessing our every moment with the breath of life while keeping the heart in our chest beating. Rev. Ike spoke of the prospering power of an attitude of gratitude. I like to say that the more grateful I am for what I have, the more I have to be grateful for.

Whether you dine on turkey or a vegetarian equivalent, add consciousness to this Thanksgiving, the day that begins our end-of-year holiday season. Perhaps you can lead your gathering in a heartfelt thankful grace, or ask each person at the table to share something that s/he is truly grateful for. It will be a memorable holiday (as in holy day) for one and all.

Create Goals to Create Breakthroughs

Keeping your eye on your goals helps you achieve them.

“Setting goals is the first step in turning the invisible into the visible.”

— Anthony Robbins

If you’re self-employed and worry about making rent or your mortgage to avoid foreclosure, you might think that establishing goals is a luxury you don’t have time for. Quite the opposite. Unless you set goals to stretch the way you market, and grow your income, you run the risk of being a casualty of this recession.

Tracking weekly goals makes use of the Law of Attraction, which states that energy goes where attention flows. There’s a physical law paralleling this—the role that the observer plays in the process of observation: “You cannot separate the observer from the observed,” said David Bohm, the world-famous quantum physicist who worked on the Manhattan Project that developed the atomic bomb. In the case of goal setting for your business, the observer is the entrepreneur and the observed is the business itself.

To take advantage of this law of nature, create a variety of weekly goals for different aspects of your business. These might include gross income, number of new clients gained, number of new prospective clients, hours spent on marketing, and so on.

At the top of your paper going across the page, write Goal, Actual and Percentage. Then, write your goals going down the page on the left margin. The first thing Monday morning, before your workweek begins, fill in your goals for the week. As the week unfolds, tally your results as they develop in the category called Actual. Then, the following Monday morning, total your results. If your goal was to gain two new clients and you gained one, you did 50 percent. Do this for each category weekly.

There’s great power in this process for, as Lee Iacocca put it, “The discipline of writing something down is the first step toward making it happen.” Simply intending certain results and attending to these intentions daily helps bring them into manifestation. That’s why it’s wise to display your weekly goal sheet where you can see them daily—remember the power of attention. “It was not possible to formulate the laws of quantum mechanics in a fully consistent way without reference to the consciousness,” said Nobel Prize-winning physicist Eugene Wigner. The same can be said for the laws of quantum business growth.

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